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Back in the Hospital – was – The Dilemma – What to do with David

This has been something of a roller coaster week. I was in Indianapolis for the National Disability Rights Network annual conference. Some fantastic networking opportunities. A lot of great information, fabulous food and weather. At home, David was busy doing what David does. At the top of the list? He forged a check. He was charged with unruly behaviors and taken to safe bed. So now I need to determine what further charges should be contemplated. Do I press charges for forging a check on my account? Today, I brought him home from the safe bed. For the most part he has been good. I have allowed him zero freedoms. I hate doing that, but he needs to know that actions have consequences. To quote him, “safe bed is a worse place than here, and they let me go outside. So how come I can’t go outside.” then he says

Stormy Lake Weather

We had a storm on the lake this week. Tornado warnings, severe thunderstorm watch, that kind of thing. I don’t know if it is the weather, the fact that I am at a conference, or what, but David has been in full form. A storm of a different kind. Facebook. If you are on the friends’ list of anyone in the family, he likely sent you a facebook request. David is not allowed technology/Internet access. David has a history of threatening to kill people via facebook. Typically he does this via hacking into accounts of his siblings. Please let us know if he says anything to you. Wednesday. David left his established area. He went outside of the boundaries established for him. When mom got home from looking for him with the intention of calling the police and reporting him as a run away he was home. Later, a local

Wrap Around Services Explained

Wrap around services means we work with social services and the different agencies in our region. since we are between two major cities in our state, we go one direction for some services, and the other direction for the rest. It gets very confusing trying to get all of the different agencies to communicate with each other. I’ll build a glossary of terms, in the coming weeks. As a parent of a kid with mental illness, I sometimes take for granted that everyone knows what I am talking about. I imagine that it is like listening to a race car driver talk about turns, wedges and drifts, he may know what he is talking about, and his team knows what he means but no one else does. That is an assumption on my part that I will work to correct. The reason that wrap around services is