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He is not a yo-yo

He is not a yo-yo. You know that right? Yesterday he was granted an extension on his stay in the facility. This was done so that we could apply for therapeutic foster care. Today, I guess that we were denied, though I am not entirely sure. What I do know is that I was told David is being discharged tomorrow. He is in, he is out, he is in, he is out. It’s not healthy for him to be jerked around like this, and in truth, it’s not healthy for the family. He will get maybe 6 hours a week of mentor time and they said something about 6 overnights a month. I have asked for clarification, none has been forthcoming as of yet. It’s that yo-yo effect, consistency is what is necessary, not the illusion of consistency. I swear, it’s like being in the movie Groundhog Day. So David

Second Guesses

Second Guesses It’s been a long day, and while my body is tired, I can’t turn off my brain. See, This is the second time in a month we have had David’s time in the facility extended. While we both knew it was a possibility, I can’t help but feel that he is being let down. I mean, it’s a huge victory for him to continue where he is successful until we can get supports in place for him to come out of the facility, but it’s not easy. In hindsight, I really don’t think David will see it as a victory, at least not until many years down the road. But it is a victory for him. For his care. It’s not easy to tell your child, “You can’t come home yet.” Even if they know and claim to understand the why of it. David understands that in order

Less than 24 hours and a wake up

Less than 24 hours and a wake up from now, barring some intervention, David will be home. He will come home from a supported environment where he has constant supervision, consistent support, and success in school, to home. Home where we can’t recreate the level of support he has now. Where we will live on edge waiting for him to fall apart mentally. We are appealing the denials, but all of that takes time. The Developmental Disabilities denial, the supported living staff denial, and general disregard for the welfare of not just the family, but of David. I am preparing a complaint with the ethics board that governs psychologists because of their unauthorized testing of David. I don’t understand how a facility that claims to be helping children, can be so emboldened as to deny ongoing care. David understands that he may go to a therapeutic foster home if we