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Category Archives: Victory

The first pass of this trip.

David has been on a plan.  This relates to behaviors they display in the residence hall.  As a result he was at risk of losing part of his pass / visit with me. I am not complaining.  My reality is that if he is exhibiting behaviors, and I am in town, then he loses pass time.  My rules.  It is harsh.  But he is being held accountable for his behavior. So when I found out he was on a plan, I was a bit leery of how any pass would go. Imagine my surprise.  The pass was incredible.  No issues.  We ate supper in the dining hall, and it reminded me a lot of military mess halls. He ate 90% of his supper, which I gather is unusual.  His meds take away much of his appetite so he basically eats and gets rewarded for doing so. When David was at

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Tags: #liftloganup, ADHD, adoption, autism, Dadblogger, Dadchat, father, Mental disorder, mental health, reactive attachment disorder ·

blessings and victories

David is really blessed to have such a great team looking out for him. From therapists, to psychiatrists, respite providers to mentors, he has an incredible team of people looking out for his interests. It is nice to know that we can count on these people to support us when we tell the school that what they are doing is wrong. Each professional and social worker has said “what the school is doing to him and your family, is wrong…” It is discrimination against a child with special needs.   Today’s victory is brought to you by David. I was working on our truck today.  Big red I call her.  She was overheating, so we ended up replacing the heater core.  Along the way, we replaced the thermostat, radiator hose, one heater hose and 2 fan belts.  Plus I made an extensive trip to a junk yard with my father

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Tags: advocate, assistance, automotive repair, help, mechanic, mentor, partnerships care coordinator, psychiatrist, respite provider, therapist ·

Today’s Victory 3-12-12

Today’s victory?  It may not seem like it, but I count today as successful.   Why?   A group of 10 people got together to try plan for the educational future of one child.   Was it disappointing that in the end we agreed to disagree?  Yes.  But today was still a success because the process of getting to the point shows that the system, flawed as it may seem to be, works.  Now the next step is a Due Process hearing.   Our son, David, sat through the whole meeting with me today.  2 and a half hours. Which for him must have felt like a life time.   That is a success as well.     Tweet #fighting4answrs

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