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finding your true path

i am adopted, and had a number of step dads while I was a kid.  Looking back I can see the hallmark indicators of reactive attachment disorder (RAD) in myself.  Not as bad as our David, but still there.  I am the way I am today because of two reasons. A probation officer gave me two choices.  One was prison, the other was a group home for teens.  (I chose the group home) I attended anger management classes, because I knew I couldn’t live my life the way that I was. To say that I was angry as a teen would be a bit of an understatement.  To say that I was mean to my family would also be an understatement.  I make no excuses for my behavior.  Can’t take it back, so the only way is to move forward. A big part of my growth away from the RAD

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not all serious

We aren’t always serious here in WhyNotFather’s Home. One of my boys and I were having fun…   I know it is sideways. Tweet #fighting4answrs