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I am confused…

Today, David and I had been having a great day.  Laughing. The phone rang, since I had my hands in dishwater I asked him to answer it.  He put it on speakerphone. I asked him to hold it close, instead he accused me of not wanting him around. How does, hold the phone equal “you don’t want me around.”? I asked him to explain it, and he doesn’t know how to. He went from nice to mean in the space of a couple of minutes.  and continued to be ornery mean for 20 minutes. I wish I understood, as then I could avoid whatever set him off.  Sadly, with mental illness, we may never know. Tweet #fighting4answrs

a brand new day

Today is a brand new day for David. This morning, he was complaining of being stiff and sore.  So I talked about the work that his muscles did to support his body yesterday while he was manic.   He said he doesn’t like it. In talking with David today, I learned that he was upset that he was going to be in trouble for riding in a vehicle, being in a place he wasn’t supposed to be and for borrowing garden tools.    He rode in a friends truck, he was outside the boundary established for him to be in, so that we know where to look for him, and he took a cultivator and garden rake without permission. For the record, until this morning, I knew about the boundary issue, but not where he ended up telling me about.  I knew the garden tools were a possibility. So much behavior for

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what do you do when…

your child is manic and goes running down the street into traffic yelling, just kill me? We had the start of an episode tonight.  I ignored it.  I walked away.  I turned the other cheek. Every time I refused to acknowledge the behavior, the behavior escalated. David started spraying something that we later learned was “just water” at his brothers, the pets… and but we didn’t know that for sure. He has cut himself in the past.  He has sprayed the animals with bug spray. So I called the Sheriff. Thankfully, he was able to help deescalate the situation.  Things are better now. To say that I was, and still am very concerned about his safety is an understatement.  But, we are safe now. I did discover one of his noon meds (for mood control and stability) laying on the floor of the van.  Which tells me that he missed

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