The silence. David is gone with his mentor right now. It is so incredibly quiet. While he is gone, I took a few minutes to dig in his roomm. Eww. bugs. food. cat food containers. eww. I have neglected it for too long. So today after I get done cleaning carpets, guess what I am…
Author: carl
Breaking the Man Code — new post by Brian Plachta
Great new post by Brian Plachta on men, boys, and masculinity. Here’s an excerpt: There is an unwritten rule that everyone with testicles must follow: the only safe subjects you can talk about when in the company of other men are sports, work and women. If a guy steps out of that box and starts…
May is Lupus Awareness Month
Here at WhyNotFathers, we are all about the mantra of father’s being involved in life. So why would we make a big deal out of Lupus Awareness Month? Easy… Our founder, Carl, has Lupus. Here is his story: I was diagnosed with Lupus in August of 1999. It was a…