>My wife and I have been talking to the other kids about M’s diagnosis and possible long term placement in a residential facility. They are sad, but taking it well. M doesn’t seem to care either way.
Long term, we are concerned about him hurting someone. The doctor describes M as an antisocial personality disorder diagnosis waiting to happen. I asked why waiting. Evidently, they can’t be diagnosed with that disorder until adulthood. I don’t know why. At any rate. We are upset. I would like to have a long talk with his birth mother. M doesn’t deserve this.