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Category Archives: Mental Health

Articles relating to mental health are in this category. Typically they will fall into one of two categories. Yours, or your child’s. Yes, your mental health is important.

Permanently Institutionalized

Today, we received a notice from Medicaid for David.  It was a notice informing him that he is permanently institutionalized. The notice went on to state that if he dies, Medicaid MAY decide to recover any payments from his estate, or the estate of his spouse if he is married. He is deemed permanently institutionalized if he has been in the facility for more than 6 months. ===== It is your standard form letter.  printed and mailed. this begs for two questions.  Unless this is a new rule… 1.  David has been in other institutions for more than 6 months each.  Why didn’t they send a letter out then? 2.  Do they understand that he is only 13?  I realized that he could have an estate if we bequeath him our things upon the passing of the whole family. I guess since Medicaid thinks that he is living independently, anything

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Tags: autism, Medicaid, mental_health, RAD, SenatorHeitkamp ·

the greatest treasure

David turned thirteen years old last Tuesday.  On July 28th, will be 11 years since his adoption was finalized.  How quickly the time goes. For David’s birthday, we went out to the facility he lives in to visit him.  Most of the family went.  We arrived late Monday, spent Tuesday, Wednesday and part of Thursday visiting David. He wasn’t with us all of the time, just in 2 or 3 hour spurts.  It was good to see him.  He has grown so tall. The hard part wasn’t just in seeing him, it was the fear.  I could sense it in his siblings, though they all did their best to hide it.  I know Mom, I and Aunt all felt that fear. Before we even arrived at the facility we had a plan in place to lock up all of our technology while David was with us. Nothing like giving him

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Tags: ADHD, adoption, autism, autism support, bipolar, Dadblogger, Dadchat, DadRT, family, father, Mental disorder, mental health, reactive attachment disorder, traumatic brain injury ·

a coming birthday

So David has a birthday coming up.  he will be a teen. In my quest to get Medicaid reinstated, he was given something called a recipient liability. He has a recipient liability because he has an income.  (SSI and an adoption subsidy).  it isn’t more than 900 a month, and the subsidy isn’t his.   anyway.  I am not upset about the recipient liability. The reason that he has a recipient liability is because he lives independently. Yeah.  Because he lives independently.  he will be 13. How many 13 year old kids do you know that live independently? He is in a psychiatric residential treatment facility. Tweet #fighting4answrs

Tags: ADHD, adoption, autism, autism support, behavior, bipolar, Dadblogger, Dadchat, DadRT, family, father, frustration, reactive attachment disorder ·

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